Friday, February 24, 2006

 

Porn and Sex Addiction

A fact: sexual thoughts permeate people’s minds every day,specially looking porn online. There is no way to deny it. Porn and sex brings pleasure and comfort for body and soul – and there is not a single person able to say that it is a lie – puritan and conservative ones could say that, but in fact it is a normal physical and mental response to life itself. People like, since very early adolescence, to see porn , watch sex pics and movies, read porn literature and do anything to provoke their libido at most – because that is the time when body passes trough changes as well as mind. Sex and porn start to be the main issue on people’s lives, and that is pretty normal. There is nothing to be ashamed of. Adolescents tend to be very much retracted, socially speaking, in this phase of their lives. Their parents are nobody to be mirrored at. This way, they start to be very close of their friends – where they can find equality of thoughts. To explore your sexuality is a very effective way to get ready for the first sex time. That is why masturbation can be considered the first sexual experience people have; sex is good and so does masturbation.
Why do not practice it, then? Sometimes, due to some organic and/or mental disturb plus overdose of images and videos depicting sexual content, people can elevate sex to the tenth potency and turn it into an addiction. It is called “Porn addiction” and can mess a lot with someone’s life. Social interaction as well as making contact to external world tends to be harder to make due to guilt and shame of inner sexual exacerbated feelings. Pornography can be a very funny and arousing entertainment, but it must be controlled, or by the contrary it can be considered as sexual dysfunction. People must be warned about it, because it can be a very dangerous path.
To watch excessively porn videos can result in a wrong idea of what sex is about. Sex videos often depict women as an object – there, they are up to everything; their only aim is to satisfy men. It is very common to see women having anal, vaginal and oral sex with several men on these films, and that is not how things work (most of the times) in real world. The worse is that many people face porn videos as a sex class; and wrong lessons leads to reprobation.

Thursday, February 09, 2006

 

Step two, the great outdoors

The most popular place to make love in the great outdoors has always been the car. Many of you may have already perfected automotive intercourse while still in high school. For those of us who were unfortunate victims of chess club and marching band, these skills will have to be acquired.
First know that many of the skills from the couch transfer to the car. There are many similarities.
Most prefer the backseat to the front. If there's an extraordinary amount of room in your car — allowing both of you to lie down as if in a bed — you're cheating. Sex in a car is supposed to be cramped and difficult. Some high school kids try and fail—fail—to complete intercourse at all! And if you know how earnest the typical high-schooler is when it comes to sex, you know how difficult this locale can be.
Choice of car is obviously important. Depending on the relative sizes of you and your partner, some vehicles may be too small. The idea is to find a car just big enough, but not too big. SUVs are cheating!
....And i got to tell you..the list can be long...don't stop there... be criative and espontanious and your partner will never get tired of you. There is nothing more boring than dated sex....

 

Who Wants to be Part of a Threesome?

People pursue threesomes for various reasons. First, the most common, are men who are looking to fulfill the fantasy of being with two women at the same time, especially if the women perform bisexual acts during the course of the threesome, otherwise known as “show time”. ? There are also women who want to experience being with two men at the same time (which is not as uncommon as you might think).
Furthermore, there are those looking to experiment, usually during college years (otherwise known as the “experimental years”), or those who have recently been divorced after being married for a lot of years, particularly those who married at a very young age. They may have missed out on the experimental years when they were younger, so they look to make up for it later in life.
Lastly, there are very sexual men and women who are looking for more variety and merely want and need more than the typical “one on one” sex act - at least once in a while.
Let's be honest, everybody may had think about it. It's normal, it's inside every human mind.... Even if you will never come to do it, you at least once will come to think of it. There is no way out...

Saturday, February 04, 2006

 

Public Sex

What is public sex?
Having sex in public is a very common fantasy and all over the world couples are discretely committing sexual acts in public places. Public sex consists of intercourse or any other sex acts performed in places where others could potentially see the participants. The thrill of taking leave of your senses and gratifying yourself in a spontaneous act of love seems to be happening more and more often now because both men and women often find it a turn-on to think that someone might find them in a "compromising position". read more..

If you are thinking about giving a little something extra in your sex life this is definitly the advice for you, just be aware that the adrenaline turns she/he on.

 

Phone Sex

Phone sex is probably one of the more common ‘alternative’ types of sexual encounter. Both men and women of many different ages have tried it, but many of us get their first taste of it at a young age, often when at a distance from a partner, keeping in touch by phone.
Phone sex is a fairly ‘safe’ style of alternative sexual contact, as there is no physical risk at all, except for what you do to yourself. Phone sex basically amounts to masturbation while talking to someone on the phone. Of course there is a small risk of having your feelings hurt if someone embarrasses you, but this only usually happens with people you don’t know. Most of us perform phone sex with a known partner, so it’s basically risk free. read more...
It's a very helpfull page with great tecniches abou oral sex.... It's not easy as most people may think..there are a few tips that if you fallow can make you an expert of pleasure giving!

 

Am I ready?

Every woman asks this question of herself and, often, of others, including myself. The answer is usually much more complicated than it appears.
Biologists define sexual maturity as the point at which an organism can reproduce itself. That is fine for grass or worms or birds and maybe even most mammals. It is an inadequate description of the human woman. It seems to imply that once the menses have begun, we are ready. In some cultures this is considered to be true. But in those cultures where motherhood is expected to begin at fourteen or so, there is a life expectancy of about 35. This, alone, should tell us something. Let’s consider the changes needed for a woman to be sexually mature as being physiological, psychological and social.
Physiological
The first signs of maturity are usually a swelling of the areola – the wider part of the nipples – and the beginning of breast growth. Some months later, the onset of the menses occurs and then full-blown puberty. The changes in the body are much more widespread and take much longer than most realise.
At the beginning of puberty, the vagina is a rather rigid, inflexible organ. It is only several cells thick and will not stretch readily. It is also not producing the natural lubricants that are always present in a mature woman and increase dramatically during sexual arousal. Five or so years later (at least), it is a wonderfully elastic organ, thick, strong and able to accommodate the birth of a child. The hips begin narrow and the pelvis has not flattened and broadened – characteristic of a female body. The clitoris is well protected deep under its hood to the extent that is identifiable only to a trained examiner.
The changes in hormones in our bodies cause the development of our primary and secondary sex characteristics and generate the fully developed woman’s body. The re-balancing of the hormones from those of childhood to those of adulthood takes several years. The attendant physical characteristics are still changing as well. Identifying the completion of this hormonal change is difficult and possibly not too relevant in its later stages. Generally, when your period has become quite regular and not much more than a discomfort, the hormones have found their balance. Growth can still be continuing though. I added a full cup size after my 20th birthday. Other women have this experience as well with breasts and other parts of the body.
The growth during adolescence requires nutrients – lots of nutrients. Even though you may not be growing as we usually consider it, individual organs are developing (breasts, uterus, vagina, hair); bone structure is changing, joints are developing and the body is becoming specifically feminine.
The risks of sex during this time are very high. If the menses are irregular, so is ovulation. More careful use of contraception is required if a woman chooses to become sexually active early in adolescence because the timing of risk is virtually impossible. Some women do not ovulate every month; others ovulate several times each month; some begin to ovulate from one ovary and not the other. You must consider yourself to always be fertile

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